And it exists: In an Australian survey, 50 percent of women ages 16 to 25 reported that they'd been pressured to give oral sex, and a recent Playboy/Harris Interactive online survey revealed that 23 percent of men wouldn't even date someone if she refused to give it. Remember the scene in Bridesmaids in which Jon Hamm ribs Kristen Wiig for not giving him a 'lap nap'? Or in Knocked Up, when Katherine Heigl asks Seth Rogen what he would want on their second date? 'BJ,' he says. Another reason for our casual view of oral sex? Sex education trends since the 1990s, says Sonia Borg, Ph.D., a clinical sexologist and author of Oral Sex He'll Never Forget. High schoolers have been taught that intercourse can lead to sexually transmitted infections-but not necessarily that oral sex may too (which it can see 'Wait' on next page). When intercourse is off the table, oral sex can become a goal. So 'men are like, It's safe, you like me, let's do this,'' Borg says. PORN, PORN, PORN! Let's not forget that the digital era has led to the rise of easy-access adult movies, in which blow jobs are often Act I, Scene I.
